Hidden in Plain Sight: Recognizing Emotional Abuse in Marriage

Hear this raw conversation with Julie Sedenko and Jessica about recognizing and escaping covert abuse in her Christian marriage

RESOURCES

• Leslie Vernick's website
• Leslie's Quick Start Guide

The Relationship Timeline

• Love bombing during dating phase
• Emotional regulation issues during engagement
• Marriage lasted 2 years
• Ended with 6-week separation

Red Flags & Patterns

• Husband proud of his "manipulation talent"
• Consistent gaslighting and emotional control
• Sexual addiction disclosed pre-wedding
• Financial dependence despite her being primary breadwinner
• Isolation from family and friends

Turning Points

• The wedding incident revealing deeper issues
• Writing "the letter" that sparked change
• Breaking point during Bible study
• Understanding God's word "faithful" in new light

Finding Help

• Leslie Vernick's teachings
• CORE program principles
• Conquer program
• Church community support